“Self-Love” – Ultimate Archway for Contentment ๐Ÿ’—

I know it is easier said than done. ๐Ÿคจ

When It comes to loving people around us we are the one who initiates happily but when someone tells us to go within and love yourself we stumble for a moment…Don’t we ??

In this article, I shall write about simple points which really need your sincere attention.

This article is not to make you narcissist so keep reading and enjoying. ๐Ÿคญ

Developing any new habit is a process and any process takes time.

Therefore, Hang in there even when you feel like quitting…

After all,

“Slow and Steady wins the Race”. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿพ


๐Ÿ˜Ž Try to know yourself

Self-love is the best source to find out who you are. Just the way we love other people after getting to know them fully in the same way without knowing your inner soul you can not love yourself wholeheartedly.

I give you my example. When I was not knowing myself thoroughly I used to be very harsh and critical about how I am. Once I start knowing myself which I call “Self Awakening” I got to know I have at least a couple of qualities within me which are really appreciable. These qualities I couldn’t see when I was barely knowing myself.

Go on the journey of self knowing to unfold hidden qualities that are waiting for ages to get admired by you.


๐Ÿ˜ Invest in yourself

Self-indulgence is the best way to invest in yourself.

Take some moment to appreciate what you do and what you are.

Take some moment to cherish your victories.

Take some moment to pat your back.

Take some moment to say yourself”I love you, Please forgive me” every day.

Take some moment for self-care, self-pampering.

Take some moment to watch out your diet, exercise regime.

Take some moment to gift yourself a tiny gift.

All these things just demand from you one thing, your ATTENTIONDEDICATION…and Just SOME MOMENT ๐Ÿ˜Š


๐Ÿฅฐ Always find a “Blessing in Disguise”

We are not perfect. We all do lack something within us. Let it be our looks, nature, strength.

We shall be grateful for lacking it.

Surprised by reading this ??

I said so because,

We take extra efforts for the things that we lack than things that we are inherently blessed with.

What else helps than putting in efforts to master something in life ??

Always search for a blessing in disguise to appreciate our blessings.

You hate the shape of your nose but have a look at your eyes how expressive they are.

You hate your bad temper but look at your charity work which has helped a lot of people so far to feel privileged in their lives.

We do lack something but at the same time, WE DO HAVE SOMETHING WITHIN US TO GET REWARDEDย by us.

Not to worry, You are not late to appreciate that. ๐Ÿค—


๐Ÿคช Be more “Experimental”

Aren’t you fed up with the old dressing style that you have been following since your college days ??

Don’t you feel like putting in a Kajalย to see how beautiful and dramatic look you get with it ??

Haven’t you ever tried retro specs frames to give a more retro look to you ??

Aren’t you eager to change hairstyle a bit for a complete makeover ?? (Celebrity style) ๐Ÿคฉ

Be more experimental to FIND A “NEW YOU” by breaking all the old styles that you carried forward so long.


๐Ÿ˜ Break others perception about you

We often rely on society’s point of view, opinions, perceptions about us.

The sad truth is we believe it to be true without giving a second thought to self assess whether all those views, opinions, perceptions are right or wrong.

We fail to assess a concrete reality base on which those views are being given or they are just rumors to make us believe we are exactly like that. (Fake notional perception about us).

This is the correct time to break that all.

People’s views hamper our thoughts and infuse hatred about us in our minds unknowingly.

Stay away from these false toxic perceptions about you.

Refrain from such people strictly who try to bog you down.ย 

You take charge of deciding how you are, how you should be, what you should do in your life. If needed take advice from genuine people but do not surrender the charge of deciding your life in their hands.

The more you take a charge of your life better you will be at the “Self-Love” process.

Don’t look at you from others point of view, LOOK AT YOU FROM YOUR OWN POINT OF VIEW.

This will surely make you fall in love with yourself. ๐Ÿ’˜


๐Ÿฅณ Be willing to change your mindset

It is said, “when you change your attitude and thinking the whole world around you get changed”.

When we jump on the “Self- Love” process, we ought to change our thinking and attitude about us from a negative outlook to a positive outlook about ourselves.

The old mindset will not fit here to make sure you love yourself.

Be willing to change it.

I have seen hundreds of people changing their lives with a positive shift and self-love just by changing their attitude and habits in daily life.

Changing the old pattern of thinking is not easy as It may seem but It is not impossible either.

When there is a desired shift in your mindset, the self-love journey sparks its presence right away.



With these simple points, I call it a Day ๐Ÿ™

I hope you would give a thought to this by taking out JUST A MOMENT. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Well, In this article I did not put images in between as I wanted to change the old format and wanted to try something new.

I feel If the content has the potential to convey the message we need not take the support of visuals to do the same task.

Still, I like using images to make my articles more vibrant and colorful but over here Images have taken a day off for the time being. ๐Ÿ˜›

Before winding up finally, I would like to recommend you all to read a fantastic Self Help book named “Good Vibes Good Life” by Vex King.

I will put the image of the bought book below.

There is a coincidence with this book and this article. After a couple of days of posting this article, I came to know about this book. When I saw the book (It’s Cover) I felt to read this book once as I felt this would be the best Self Help book and Life-changing thing for me. (Well, Don’t judge a book by its cover) ๐Ÿ˜‰

But I can happily say whatsoever intuition I had about the book IT PROVED TO BE TRUE. ๐Ÿ™‚

In my personal experience, I really found this book capable of changing the lives of people for the better.

My favorite lesson in the novel is “Respect your Uniqueness”.

When I was halfway through the book, I decided to recommend this book to you all to really consider “Self Love” practices sincerely.

I feel this book landed up at the perfect time in my life because of which I could recommend it in the “Self Love” article of mine.

Do read this book once…

If you have some more suggestions about such captivating novels please do not hesitate to let me know the names. I would definitely take a step to buy and read them.


Here there is one practical point to be considered before we start a journey of self-love.

Changing any habit and developing a new one takes time. After all, It is a process. Hence, only commitment to self-love is not important. Consistency along with commitment matters a lot. You may fail initially or feel like giving up that’s when consistency comes into the picture.

Moreover, just by reading self-help books, watching motivating videos, we would not learn to self-love. Books and videos are supplementary stuff that would help you in this self-love journey. Mere positive thinking will not help either. Unless you support this journey with POSITIVE ACTIONS.

In a nutshell, Some motivational stuff (like my blog) ๐Ÿ˜‰ + Own positive thinking + OWN POSITIVE ACTIONS will result in a successful self-love journey.

Therefore, rely on all these three things in tandem.




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